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I’ve struggled a lot in the past with my confidence, especially when it comes to my sexuality. It’s only in the past few years really, since I reached my thirties, that I’ve really come to appreciate the importance of vocalising how you feel in bed, and prioritising your own pleasure. I’m a big fan of Bondara, so it’s been amazing working with them on a post about some of their range of lingerie and female toys.

Having had three children, and being in my thirties, I am a little self conscious about my tummy area. For this reason, I usually shy away from wearing two piece underwear sets, but this Flirt Love Interest 3 Piece Bundle caught my eye and, I must admit, I love it! It comes with a riding crop and bullet, to bring a little fun to bedtime.. I really like the detailing on the bra, and it makes me feel sexier and in control when I wear it.




The Red Lace Keyhole Backless Teddy is fantastic, as it smooths over the tummy area, and instead accentuates your bum, with a cheeky cut which really shows this area off. Red really suits me, with my blonde hair – I am a big fan!



I have always wanted a corset, and this Flirt Floral Corset is perfect for giving me all the confidence in and out of the bedroom. The fishnet hold-ups are also super flattering. I have a small chest, but this corset gives me a cleavage, whilst skimming over the lumps and bumps – I would recommend for follow small boobed girls!



When it comes to adult toys, Bondara have everything you could ever want. I was sent the Rechargeable Vibrating Nipple & Clit Stim and the To the Point Mini Wand Vibrator, which are both perfect for solo and couple play. Both toys provide precise vibrations, just where you need them, and are reasonably priced at under £15 each. I would never have brought my own toys into bed with a man in the past, but it is so good to share how different vibrations and pressures can cause different orgasms. Even in my thirties, I am still learning, and finding new toys that make me feel incredible.


As I say, it has only been recently that I have stopped faking my orgasms, and actually made my own pleasure my priority. I have always been so worried about the guy I have been with having a good time, that I have not wanted to rock the boat by pushing for my own orgasm during our time together, but all that causes is resentment, and a lack of pleasure for me – where’s the fun in that? Now I ask what I want, I show my partner what makes me feel good, and I feel so much secure and sexy in bed as a result. If you are looking to add a little something extra to your sex life, I would highly recommend Bondara. They have such a vast range of lingerie, toys and other erotic paraphernalia, all at reality reasonable prices, meaning more pleasure, for less cash!

This is a sponsored post, with items featured gifted from Bondara for the purpose of the post.